如果你再善解人意多一些，

再耐心一些，

再相信一些，

再可爱一些

你会发现这世界爱你的人很多很多。

sometimes i think lots of things we do in the world are sub-conscious. when we encountered setbacks or unsettling stuff, we would always ask ‘what did i do?’ or ‘why me’. is this a rhetoric question? do we really want an answer? or perhaps, sometime somewhere we alr got hold of the answer. mom always asked, 为什么是我， 是因为我好欺负吗？but i think deep down she knows the problem starts with her, and subconsciously.. she is avoiding the track of reason that shall ultimately lead to her being the ultimate factor. because if one does not think it is one’s fault, one would never ask that self-doubting question in the first place. one would have asserted that it is not one’s fault and left it at that.